Because I am familiar with the Internet, I can see the overall picture of how it works and it is like standing on that hill on the Colorado Plateau. I can see forever. But I certainly relate to those people out there who are staring at an impenetrable wall and cannot either understand or comprehend what they are looking at.
What is the key to understanding and overcoming these feelings of being overwhelmed? I didn't think I would ever feel "at home" in the jungle, but after two years, it was at least familiar and not so intimidating. I found that, like everything in life, the jungle was comprehensible with familiarity. I learned to walk through the jungle without being afraid that I would be eaten by one of its denizens.
If you are overwhelmed and fearful of the Internet, there is hope. You can learn a few basic skills that will help to overcome these feeling of inadequacy. The operative word here is "learn." The process is called practice. If I had let my fear of the jungle control me, I could have avoided it for my entire stay in Panama. But my curiosity and sense of adventure overcame my initial fear and I don't know that I learned to love the jungle, but I did learn to live in it.
It is the same with the jungle of the Internet. Taken a small step at a time, it is comprehensible and not intimidating. There are dangers for sure, but they are manageable and not usually fatal.
Where do you start? Like me with the jungle, you start one small step at a time. It also helps to study and learn all you can about the Internet. I meet so many people who say the same thing, "I don't know anything (or much) about computers or the Internet but..." So what did they do to learn? There are literally hundreds, perhaps thousands, of introductory books for learning about computers and the Internet.
Try these for example:
- Levine, John R., and Margaret Levine Young. The Internet for Dummies. Hoboken, N.J.: Wiley Pub., Inc, 2012. <http://site.ebrary.com/id/10509844>.
- Computer Basics
- Webwise from the BBC
What if you are already proficient in using the Internet and are a whiz with computers? Don't you think you should share that information with others? How about teaching someone to use a computer and while you do that, help them with their genealogy.